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on Thursday, September 7th, heather said
andrew-
you are so fortunate to have known- personally- philip. i believe that he is one of the courageous ones, to do, and feel, and speak as his mind directs or even demands him at times, i'm sure! treasure what you had with him. i wish i had a philip.
on Saturday, August 19th, Andrew said
Mark, the loss I feel is personal and not likely to enrage me because of what you or anyone else has to say here. And Philip, if he's looking down, enjoyed debate, and would have been fascinated by the responses you all have written down here. Not that he would neccesarily agree! It would have been interesting to hear what he would have had to say, but no matter what, know that in spite of his roughness, he was a generous man in spirit who did a lot for other people.
on Thursday, August 10th, Jackson said
Pollock not Pollack guys
on Wednesday, August 9th, Mark said
I must apologize to Andrew; you have lost someone and that is a sad thing, and I got caught up in the whole rudeness thing and forgot that, and in doing so I have been rude myself. I am sorry for your loss Andrew, I know the feeling of loss having lost my father and brother within six months of each other, though it was long ago they are both missed. Loss of family or friend is hard. Perhaps Pavia is looking down at your blog and our comments and giving his strong opinion.
on Wednesday, August 9th, josé freitas cruz said
Picking up on what has been posted here so far and calling on a very interesting contribution by Gary to a previous blog (by Michael Corbin), I’d say that even in those cases where there is an understanding and recognition amongst peers, resorting to rudeness and yelling does not favour communication.
Thinking back on the fellow I told you about I can see how there are two different moments that I merge into a single mental image of him. There are the times when he’s obnoxious and keeps me on my toes – insecure, questioning, doubting, fearful, lost, though never really angry because I’ve gotten to know him and his moods. And there are the moments when we manage to sit down and talk and we go quietly over the things he yelled at me on the previous occasion. Both aspects make up the man. Without the first, the second may not seem like the sweet reward it is. I think this is what Andrew is talking about, and to loose somebody such as that is, well…
That the moments of rudeness happen when my friend is intoxicated or tense is of no concern to me. That he believes that he must be intoxicated to allow the genius to pour out of him is of even less concern. My respect and admiration for him would never allow me to be so shallow as to suggest that he be someone else. I live my life, he lives his, and we both bring different things to the table when we manage to get there. Sometimes we have a feast, he’ll go back with his memories, I’ll go back with mine. When we meet again we always find our friendship has grown – if he yells again he knows I press the ‘pause button’ in my mind and move on and he waits for the ‘fast forward’ moment when we meet again.
People aren’t easy to deal with as it is, artists even less. We often hear it said that artists are sensitive fellows, but sensitive need not mean weak and we need to learn how to go about the life we have chosen with a bit more guts. If we want to learn and grow as artists we’ll necessarily come face to face with others, and at some stage with somebody who will not have the patience or disposition to put up with our s**t and say so to our face – the question is will we have the stomach to press the ‘pause button’ and does this somebody generate in us the curiosity to wait for the ‘fast forward’ moment when communication can resume?
on Tuesday, August 8th, Mark said
HHHMMMMMMMM! Drinking, getting drunk and drinking some more and still creating great art? That's it, that's what I am doing wrong! I am not drunk enough. Sorry, but there was so much refrence to drinking in Hyacinthe's comment I feel I need a drink. Bourbons my choice. I have had many great teachers in art even though I have never met most of them. But I wonder would they tell me now that the key to success is drinking? No, I think not. I have read many a book on the artists Hyacinthe mentioned and I respect many of them and thier ideas, yes there was a lot of drinking but not to help them create art, but because life was hard and so was success, the drinking, like it or not was a form of "whinning." No one gets drunk to be a better artist. I am sure that is not what Hyacinthe ment to say. What she ment to say that back then men were men and women were women and those of us today are just whinners when they can't be a success, and back then rudeness was the rule and that was good. Rudeness, too, is a form of whinning. And to quote Bambi! God how Disney makes me shudder. "If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all," is not what we say here but say your piece with respect is all. One can make one's opinion heard and still be kind, still show respect, rudeness is lack of respect for those mightier then us and those who have not yet reached our level. In my thirty plus years of art and fifty plus years of life I have come across the rude and the generous, the suportive and those who felt they must tell you what they think, even when unasked for, because they are honest people and must inject their opinion whether it was good or not, as if they know more (when in truth if they didn't they would explode). The rude are rude to cover weakness and nothing more, to seem better or have more knowledge then others. To look back at what once was is fine in an historic perspective, but what was will never be again and thank the stars for that, why go backward. Lets take the good from the past remember the bad so as not to repeat and move forward creating our own movement of art that encompasses all who wish to contribute and not just for a few elite drunks who hide their insecruities with rudeness. "Drunk with eyes wide open."?????? I have never been THAT drunk I guess.
on Tuesday, August 8th, hyacinthebaron@aol.com">Hyacinthe Baron said
The adage is from Bambi when his mother says: "Thumper if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all." Here is implied something sorely missing in interractions today, especially on the internet and that is RESPECT.
My generation has always taken those words seriously, and always respected those who have accomplished.
Of course many go on to teaching full time while keeping up with the idea that they can still develop and execute their "own" work. Within the academic world there are always opportunities for exhibition within the closed context. Here is the breeding ground for Curators. Many of these go on to put together exhibits in museums and such and remember the teachers who are so locked in to the working world.
Reality check in visual art seems to be that art must come first and work for a living second.
That was certainly the case with DeKooning and Pollack and their compadres. The Cedar Bar by the way I believe was two doors down from my flat on Christopher Street and subsequently became the StoneWall Inn. They all hung out by the way at the White Horse Tavern where many a young woman such as myself who were filled with awe at their gigantic figures and presence made ourselves very available to these artists who worked as moving men during the day, painted most of the night and drank the rest away.
I don't recall Pavia, though I remember you asking me about him Andrew, but he sounds so typical of that group. They were all worth knowing and hanging out with because they were men and they were not afraid to make committments to their art. They were frustrated, they tried everything, copied every style, searched deep into their drunken selves to find their form of expression and succeeded.
They never whined at lack of success as many artists take the opportunity to do on this site. They perservered, worked harder than many others I have known and reaped greater rewards than many others.
These guys, as I call them, inspired me to keep after my dreams and to take success in stride and go forward to the next phase. They knew how to have revelations and precious aha moments.
If a drunken Pollack pied all over a canvas he had unstretched and thrown to the floor, it was not wasted. He recognized more in that action and was never afraid to follow through. Drunk, with eyes wide open. Not afraid to admit that he wasn't very good at figures or landscape or even had a style of his one. He was not afraid to pick up on a moment that offered possibilities.
If a drunken DeKooning hated the painting of a woman he had on his easel he was not afraid to wipe her out, and find the remnants and develop them and wipe them out again and bring forth a new expression of an old subject. He had complete confidence in his draftsmanship.
Now there seems to be a generation who are afraid to go with their convictions, who feel failure is their only reward or have so little respect for previous art makers that they refuse to use any form of art standard but prefer to do as they please and call it art.
Walt I believe you used as an example on one of your blogs a mother and child painted with buffalo dung. Are art teachers now expected to accept such rebellious stands to be accepted? Where is the respect.
Thank you Andrew so much for this wonderful homage. I for one truly appreciate it. I certainly hope on my passing there will be those who will remember me in the way you have Pavia. The stand that you have made for honest appraisals and sincere discussions instead of whining and laments.I agree blogs on art web sites and in particular absolutearts.com are an opportunity to reach such a large audience that it is a pity when lame individuals interfere, or do not address the subject. Art needs to be put back in perspective through sharing of experiences and knowledge.
on Tuesday, August 8th, walt said
I've found that by attempting to stay courteous it tends to be easier to stay on subject. When we are too eager to get to the 'truth' at all costs it often all goes to s**t...as I've often seen it happen here on aa in the past.
Courtesy, in my experience, doesn't mean one can't speak honestly...just means that the tenor is carefully strung. The problem here on aa is not that we have a hard time speaking the truth but that we are so diverse across such a wide range of experience and knowledge. One of the reasons schools work, when they work, is because they organize students around knowledge levels and skill sets so they can speak to each other without having to come down or reach too high to even out the playing field. There should always be some reaching and because of that there will always be some stooping. But the trick is to keep the two reasonably close together. It is hard when a sophomore mangages to find their way into a senior discussion. Often times they hear a word they think they understand (although most likely out of context) and end up at cross purposes to the entire discussion. That happens here a lot and is sometimes the reason that ad homenin accusations begin to fly...which isn't in the least bit helpful.
I heard a story from Robert D'Arista when in grad school. He said De Kooning once visited the show of a rather young painter. The young painter didn't know to whom he was speaking. De Kooning spoke to him about his work very cautiously, gently always asking permission to speak honestly. He didn't really know the young artist and didn't want to screw him up.
On the other hand, at the Cedar Bar I've read he was just as likely to get into a drunken fist fight as anyone else (with the exception of Pollack). There they were all equals.
on Monday, August 7th, Andrew said
I stand corrected.
on Monday, August 7th, Matt said
Can history be repeated? Sure. That's not what I said though. A bygone era as illustrated by this interview Walt supplied us is what I refer to.
www.abartonline.com/html/jrw_writing_ll_1.html
on Monday, August 7th, Andrew said
Sounds like that's what you're trying to do.
on Sunday, August 6th, Mark said
I forgot to mention Andrew that there seems to be an undercurrent of anger to your words, not passion, but something dark, not healthy perhaps. Maybe not, hard to tell in the written word, I could be wrong, but I think not. Rudeness does get reaction, true, but not always honest reaction, just reaction. Crits from others can be helpfull, but being cruel serves no purpose, one can be deeply, truely, and even hard edge honest without being mean.
on Sunday, August 6th, Mark said
Andrew I never reffered to history repeating itself. As for courtesy, you are dead wrong. Rudeness never helps, it does not show honesty, it is a mask for inadequacy, a cover for weakness, a bully who tries to show power when it does not exsist. Being couteous is not dishonest, but respectfull. Your comment says much about you.
on Sunday, August 6th, Andrew said
What Walt says is to be respected, and this comes from all the stuff you've written that I've read here. But let's take a look at who you are, Walt and how you got to the state which makes you say what you say. As a teacher, you find yourself surrounded by students, a group which needs to be controlled, and is notoriously hard to control. One of the main tools you work with is a strong stance against rudeness in any form. What we do most of the time is what makes us who we are, and affects what we say, and the way we say it.
Those of us who are not teachers don't face this particular gamut...we have others. Mark and Matt; History does repeat itself, so I am not of the opinion that Pavia's situation will never emerge again, but that it will in a different guise.
And, there is a reason not to be courteous, if courtesy prevents you from hearing or speaking the truth. It is another layer, like on an onion, that keeps you one step further from the core. The adage, '...if you can't say anything nice, then don't say anything at all...' could be the motto of our group here on absolutearts, and Paul Dorrel personifies that more than anyone else, so carefully avoiding offense, that sometimes I feel like I'm not even being spoken to.
And skipping quickly to another issue, if we say something others don't like, often times we get no reaction at all. That's poison to the development of an artistic maturity, in that you're slowed down in achieving it. It is also a form of ostricism, passed down from on high, and as such, rude in itself.
Paul's responses to comments make him a likeable guy, but don't give a whole lot of information. I'm not attacking him...he's raised some very important issues, and has started some of the most involving discussions we've had.
The best criticism I've ever gotten, were the ones that were the hardest to listen to, because they were harsh. WetCanvass crits came the closest to that of any I've found, but were still too weak for me. Something in the air of our times...Let's all be nice to one another, supportive. But will doing that make us stronger artists? It's not just crits of work I'm talking about, but those of a way of working, of a way of living, of a way of discussing, of a way of seeing. That's the crit I'm giving you all, in this instant. I think a lot of you are holding back things that in the long run, would be helpful to hear.
Olga, lunch on a tray is often what I bring to my wife as she sits at the table under the gazebo.
on Saturday, August 5th, Matt said
A bygone era which, most likely, won't be repeated. What a privilege to have known such a person.
An interesting blog Andrew with some good points and I think I hear what you are saying. Although I have to agree with Walt that there is no reason not to be courteous.
on Saturday, August 5th, Michael Fornadley said
Question should be asked to who are we trying to communicate with our art and if not accepted is it invalid. Personally I too would like to see more passion involved with the arts instead of the quest for that all mighty dollar, see too many artists riding the gravy train producing nandy pandy work. What every happen to taking risks with your work in content and subject matter even if it means failure. For the artists on the fast track it would mean upsetting the powers that provide the ego fulfillment, far too much of a risk, as a result we get the same old, same old, etc. Really getting tired of SAFE work and real frustrated with it getting critic praise or award. Want the secret of getting ahead in the arts, forget about mastering your craft and put on a clown outfit and become a con artist and chances you will go far. With this crowd it is required to be noticed, silly game as it is.
Here on absolutearts any debate to the merit or critique of an artists work even when asked has to be tempered with the ages of the artists involved. By age I mean the experience and actual age of the artists, I would be inclined to be more honest with an artist with the same number of years producing and life experiences as myself. I know their egos can take it, this can be positive for both parties and could produce that passion that Andrew is looking for. Seen a number of good debates and confrontations on this site, and for the most part people did not go to the name callng phase of any heated exhange of ideas or opinions. For the sake of argument is it a line that should be crossed or are we too civilized for our own good.
on Saturday, August 5th, jose said
Andrew, what I was trying to say is that on the internet we are beyond the realm of 'the naked ape' and that the kind of engagement we have with people such as the Philip Pavias of this world requires super human powers of restraint from our side not to be offended and respond with hurt or anger.
So far we haven't seen this happen. Apart from the truly crass and empty remarks of anonymous readers there have been some positively delivered comments that have prompted responses of indignation and, or, a lack of response, suggesting hurt. As human beings we need to be able to read the signs and the signs become harder to read over the internet unless the guy is a remarkable writer and manages to convey to you in his criticism his ultimate intention to help you out of the morass he sees you in.
On the plane, on the train or on the bench feeding the pigeons the guy sitting next to you has a whole set of body language that helps you to read beyond his words... if you're an open minded guy and you're feeling particularly receptive on that day you'll read those signs and consider his point of view. On the internet all that is gone and Desmond Morris would probably add a few more chapters to his book.
I do agree with you, however, that it would be great to hear constructive criticism of our work on this forum. Amongst a core group within aa it actually is already possible, but it would require that those coming at us from out of the blue make a tiny effort to provide the extra signals we can’t see through the screen.
The internet is an amazing contradiction: it fuels the idea that we are coming closer. The reality, though, is that it’s speed and code of conduct – fast, short messages, anonymity – leave little margin for the extra signals that would reassure us of ultimate intentions and so only contribute to keep us further apart – in a state of delusion about our belonging to some global village.
This is all very new, and because the younger generations overtook us in mastering the technology this is the anarchy we are living in – where childish anonymity still rules. A community – a village – comes into being through the individuals who make it up. Individuals who show a face and share the results of their achievements within the community and are therefore accepted (if not always loved). The real Global Village is still in the making and will grow out of this very same principle. In the not too distant future those who choose to waste their energies anonymously will find that they belong to no such thing for they have contributed nothing of value to their peers and the generations who follow.
on Saturday, August 5th, Andrew said
I think from the comments so far that what I meant regarding gloves off, passionate directness, is being mistaken for pointless name calling. In previous blogs, there has been some lively discussion, for example in Michael Corbin's last one where people got wound up about defining art. That last lengthy paste by Gary is brilliant! Some said it isn't worth talking about, just bury yourselves in your work and let others define things. And then there's Pavia, very busy talking about and defining in words what was happening, and then defining it again with actions in his studio. Artists after all, define what art is in the moment they produce it. Passion, or the lack thereof, is visible the moment after. There's a big gap between someone commenting on what I do as a figurative marble carver saying, 'Marble bathroom tiles for sale', as someone who doesn't like my work once did, and more tangible criticism that I could actually use - which I've never gotten. The internet isn't the place for some types of discussion, and yet, sometimes, you don't want to discuss things with people you see every day. Ever meet a person on a plane or train, who tells you something really personal, because they know they're never going to see you again? The internet provides that, a sort of virtual strangership, which opens up some opportunities as it closes down others. I think we need to explore this.
on Friday, August 4th, jose freitas cruz said
Andrew, for something like that to work it requires some kind of implicit respect for [and amongst] all parties involved – not respect in the sense of being nice to one another or politically correct, but in the sense of recognition of the validity of each other’s projects and endeavours.
Blatant disregard for an opinion or a stance, without prior mutual recognition of each of the parties involved in such an exchange is useless – a pure waste of time and energy – and leads to nothing constructive. It only acquires purpose when [for whatever reason] the one who is so violently called to reason has accepted his aggressor as someone worthwhile ‘listening’ to.
One of my mentors I mentioned in an earlier post sounds pretty much like your friend Philip. I still remember the times, when I would watch him yell obnoxiously at people around him and [mis]took him for a crazy fool - the people he yelled at appeared always at a loss with what to do with so much verbal abuse. I knew, through friends we had in common, that he disliked my work and so I watched him from the safety of my table at the Café before heading off to work. One day, however, he approached my table, quite purposefully, and told me in the face that he disliked my work and felt that the subject matter I was exploring was feeble in its possibilities.
What is my point? I had a face, I had information: He was eccentric, yes, but he was said to be one of the few left over from a generation of artists I admired, and he had the guts to come up and say what he thought to my face. I was able to respond looking him in the eye and inviting him to talk over it over a glass of wine. We became very close ever since and he still yells at me. This, I’m afraid Andrew, is what is lacking and difficult to recreate on these blogs. There is generally no face [no name] and no information to be had on some of the guys who usually react with more venom to what is being said and so the basis for an honest debate with such people doesn’t exist, and responding to them becomes a waste of our time and energy.
All is not lost, though, and I think that as Mark and Walt have pointed out, what some have achieved here on this forum is as close enough to an honest exchange and debate of ideas as is possible given the lack of our physical presences which would validate our going for the jugular in a meaningful way – a way that comes from the heart.
A great blog... and, oh! what a lucky man you are [as in the ELP song] to have met such a figure.
on Friday, August 4th, Andrew said
That's a great interview. I highly reccomend it!
on Friday, August 4th, walt said
By the way, I found an interesting interview with Pavia if anyone is interested.
www.abartonline.com/html/jrw_writing_ll_1.html
on Friday, August 4th, walt said
there is no reason not to be courteous. I have never gotten a handle on what is politically correct. I guess it depends on which political party you belong. But courtesy and fairmindedness is an essential to any good discussion or crit, no matter how passionette one becomes. I've slammed my fist down many a night at the pub in disagrement with some friends idea. But the evening always ended peacefully and friendly.
Especially on such an open ended venue as aa. With students and artist friends at a local pub I will say more or less what I think and feel. But I'm afraid that this group is far two diverse and often times "can't handle the truth". There has to be a toughmindedness from the start or it devolves to name calling and the thread gets lost so easily as we have often seen when folks try to be brutally honest.
No, I must disagree. I don't think the web is the place for those kinds of artistic discussion. I don't think it can every really gel here. Too public. But, it is a good place to run into other artists who have deeper passions and a stronger constitution who would be worth meeting for drinks and a good argument once in a while. Problem is we live all over the place. The web is supposed to cure that problem but it really doesn't. In fact there are times when I think it is such a tease as to be disruptive. I should be spending more time with people who live nearby where I can see them face to face and therefore really have a sense of what they are saying. It is always better when you can actually smell the beer or wine on their breath as they are deconstructing your argument in front of everyone while you feel like a fool.
But Andrew, it is a great thing to have known someone like Pavia. It is an important thing to find connections to that art of a previous generation... to just hang out with them and see them as real human beings rather than famous photos in a history book. I studied with Robert D'Arista who was around the 8th street group. Pavia may have remembered him. He was a protege of Phillip Guston and for a while shared a studio with Franz Kline. Later he taught at American University in Italy and Wash. DC. and taught at Boston Univ. for a year while another Professor was on sabbatical. I also spent two years working with James Weeks from the California (SF) Colorist movement... you know, Diebenkorn, Park and others. I sat through some really deep crits with these folks and not once could I call them anything but curteous and kind. Honest, but never cruel. I've listened to crits by some faculty that were simply cruel and unusal punishment and served no purpose whatsover. But these older profs were gentlemen. They could clarify or wipe away your ideas in a few words and a smile. But they never left you bleeding and always had a suggestion or a principle that held the nugget of a new direction.
on Friday, August 4th, olga said
Ha-ha Andrew! Dream of men...".. wife approached with lunch on a tray".
on Friday, August 4th, Mark R Brockman said
I am no fan of political correctness, I feel it hides a persons true feelings. But nor am I a fan of rudeness. I believe a conversation can be deep, animated and exciting, but still be civil. What once was, such as what took place in the fifties, can never be again, in fact it was the attitutes of many artists back then that created the canyon between the artist and the public. So maybe what once was should not be again. Art movements had their place as well, but in this day and age there are to many types of work hanging side by side and that I feel is a good thing. An art movement in the past may have just happened but in todays world it would be created intentionaly, (as happens in music, movies and books) and that would be unpleasant, artificial and misleading.
This is a great place for conversation, and we should speak our mind without insult. My ideas and opinions are mine and no one needs to agree with them, but I see no need to be mean about expressing them. Artist of stature seem to feel they can say what is on thier mind and the rest be damned as if they are all that matters. So be it, if I should ever reach a level of that kind of stature (not likely) and when I pass I hope peole do not speak of my unbridled opinions but rather that I had good ideas, good opinions but was willing to hear what others had to say as well. One can be direct but not unkind. I do not know of Pavia's life and I mean no insult to him for I can not judge a man by other people's words, so I mean no disrespect to him either. But no man, no artist is better then another and none have the right to look down on others in any way, to treat them badly or with insult.
So lets have good strong opinions and not worry about hurting someones feelings, but does rudeness, unkindness, and a dictorial attitued need to be? NO. This is just my strong opinion on the subject and if you don't like it, go $#%* yourself, :) :D